Thank you for your interest. Our family is healing.
My Boys are Back
I was reunited with my boys almost four years ago and am very happy and relieved to have them back in my life - now shared with my wonderful wife. Despite all that's happened they are doing very well - teenagers now. They jumped right into life enjoying friends, school, sports, hobbies, free from fear.
After much therapy, patience and love they've been able to overcome the years of isolation with their mother and alienation from me, and our relationship has blossomed - back to a normal, healthy and spirited one. It will take many more years for the scars to fully heal but we are thankful that we have that time and lots of love to get there.
Our Continued Challenges
We believe the boys' mother suffers from borderline personality disorder. She has been waging a vilification campaign against me since our divorce in 2002. Unfortunately this is not a mental illness that is easily treatable because the sufferer rarely acknowledges that they have a problem. And worse, she has expanded her campaign of hate to many others.
She continues to interfere, badmouth, and ignore court custody orders. Sadly she has disowned our oldest, now 19, and will likely do the same to our middle son when he turns 18 soon. Tragically she is hiding my youngest from me again - likely with an underground organization such as the Protective Parent Group. It is heartbreaking that he is once again being kept from his family, school, all of his friends and activities, proper medical care and his right to be a free citizen. He is, once again, a missing child.
Please Help
If you have any information about his whereabouts please contact Carole Snyder of the San Diego DA's Child Abduction Unit: (619) 615-6891
More Information
If you wish to better understand the complexities of our story we recommend these sources:
2011 Appellate Court Decision Moelter Dumas Appellate Decision
The Essential Family Guide to Borderline Personality Disorder
Children of the Underground Watch
Damon Moelter Eric Moelter Nicole Moelter Nicole Peill-Moelter Nicole Peill Cindy Dumas John Dumas LaVonne Dumas